Why A Second Chance At Love Matters
3 reasons second love matters:
- you learn that you can love again
- you are reassured that you are loveable
- every love is different
tips and pointers for loving again:
- love yourself first
- let it all go; fear, anxiety, guilt, shame, whatever... be yourself
- do not be afraid
- nothing is the same... don't think it will be
- let yourself completely immerse in feelings. do not hold back.
When we first meet someone we can be vulnerable. I remember telling my second love "I am fragile, please do not hurt me." I was freshly wounded from a previous relationship, where I had been hurt badly. You may be spending nights tangled together and may also have days that pass with ease. Sometimes before we are even aware that we have actually been in love we then realize we have already fallen so quickly. Chemistry and communication are key to any relationship between two individuals. Whether it is a family member or significant other, you must always be open to reaching a better place together. As challenging as it may be to reach a happier place in a relationship when neither see eye to an eye, we must never be attached to what it looks like and rather what it will feel like.
Your second love or any other love will teach you as much as you are willing to let in. Love is different in every person. That love is something which lacks a true definition, since it is such a fluid feeling. Love makes you feel full; full of feelings and sensations which lack words. Love exists in so many forms.
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